 28 Things I've Learned The Day I Turned 28Tuesday, July 8, 2014 | 0Superstar (s)!
It's my 28th Birthday today, as I make my way through my late
twenties, I've decided to write some meaningful and not so meaningful
things that I've learned during my journey here in the universe. If you
are interested to read my piece of shit, feel free to check my list.
1. Age and height doesn't matter, maturity does.
I've
always been the little girl wandering around in this so called planet
Earth. A girl who've always hated her height ever since the world begun.
I've hated the way people looked at me and treated me because of my
height. It feels like as if nobody's taking me seriously. Most
especially whenever they knew my real age. The scenario will always be
like this: "Really? I thought you're only 16 or something." I don't know
if I should feel offended or complimented. I had gone through a massive
transformation, maybe not much on the physical aspect but rather more
in my way of life. As time passed by, I have learned to deal with it. I
doesn't matter now how small I am. What important is how I manage to
live my life as a mature individual. I may be small but at least I'm
cute!
2. Life will always seek to define you.
At
this age, we are expected to achieve more in life. That we should be
successful with our lives at this point in time. That we should be like
this and like that and so on. There's always labels to define your
stability as a human being and the purpose why you are living your life
in this world. Apparently, I'm still searching for my own purpose. It's
not easy after all but sooner or later I will find it. Ultimately, I am
the only person with the ability to define my existence. Never forget
who you are and everything else will be revealed.
3. Self-worth is better than net worth.
Before,
I used to pity myself for not having all the things I've wanted. I
thought that those things will define my worth as a person but then I
was wrong. Yes I don't have the greatest career, thousands of money in
the bank, luxurious jewelry, signature items, fancy car but I know that
I'm doing my best to surpass life's challenges and that is what I value
the most now. I realized that there is more pride working a job that
pays you minimum wage than staying at home and being a burden on your
family. I know it's not enough but at least I can start putting things
into pieces.
4. I am beautiful no matter what they say.
I
know that I have a lot of insecurities when it comes to my physical
appearance and it's not healthy at all. I should learn to appreciate the
things that I have. Remember that I am one of God's greatest creation.
Though I am not perfect, I am definitely beautiful no matter what others
say about me. Yes, I believe in that. It's just a matter on how I carry
myself with confidence and the way I look at myself from within. I
should shine bright like a diamond.
5. Mistake is a way of life.
It
is normal to commit mistakes. That's part of life. It is how well you
handle all the shit life has to throw at you. Learn from it and move on.
6. Everyday is a learning process.
We
encounter different people everyday with different experiences and we
learn from them. What happened today will be different from tomorrow. It
is a never ending process and learning is part of our journey that
constantly affects every aspects of our life. There is no better time
than now to discover all the wonderful things that lie in waiting for
me.
7. Experience is the best teacher.
Our
entire existence is created through our experiences and what we take
from them. It molds us to be the person that we will be. It will teach
us to be wiser, better, bolder and braver.
8. Live outside the box.
Live
extraordinarily. Don't settle for what is there. Be bold. Be brave. It
can be rough but it is also where we learn the most, grow the most, and
accomplish the most.
9. Laugh out loud as often as you can.
Having a great sense of humor is one of the best things in life. Go ahead and laugh at yourself and with your own bullshits.
10. Sing your heart out.
Feel
free to sing even though your voice is horrible. It's a good way of
bursting out all you sentiments, all your worries, all your fears. Just
let it out. Let your voice be heard.
11. Indulge yourself with the things you love.
Find
the simple joys in life and not taking everything so damn seriously all
the time. I should reward myself with things that will make me happy.
Treat myself with a fair of shoes, a new dress, a book, a bowl of my
favorite chicken sopas, or maybe a 3 day trip somewhere. Do something
every day for yourself, not just to make you happy, but to make yourself
someone better. Pamper yourself because no one else is going to make
that effort. Nevertheless, I deserve all of this.
12. Never stop dreaming.
I
should dream big and believe that it will all come true in God's time.
I may not be where I want to be, but neither where I used to be, if it
hasn't happened yet that doesn't mean it won't happen. A delay is not a
denial from the one who made it all... someday, on the right moment,
things will be perfectly beautiful in my life. Just believe.
13. Dare to be bad sometimes.
Being
so good is boring. It's okay to do things out of your way. Put some
spices into your life. You may sneak out, have a secret affair, flirt
with guys, tell a lie, get laid, get drunk, do whatever you want.
Lighten up, be silly, be weird, be yourself and ignore how you’re
supposed to act. Anyone can be an asshole. Just be responsible with
your actions and know your limitations.
14. Being single is not bad at all.
I
can't believe I'm saying this. Haha! But yeah, it's true. Being single
doesn't mean that you are ugly or undesirable. Sometimes it means that
you are strong enough to live your life alone and just be happy about
it. Every woman has the exact love life she wants. Hmmm... maybe that’s
not such a scary, negative thought after all. Maybe someday that will
change. Maybe I won’t want singleness anymore. Maybe someday singleness
won’t want me. But for now, for today… I want it and I choose it.
15. Nothing beats first kiss.
I
had my first kiss when I was 26 (Late bloomer me... Lol) I consider it
as one of the greatest moments in my life. It was sweet and tender kiss.
Honestly, I already kissed three different guys (I must say, all of
them are equally hot and good-looking), but the first one will always be
the special one. Wink! :)
16. Cry until it hurts no more.
It’s
alright for a day or two, for a little while to feel the pain and
slowly let go of it, one day at a time, one breath at a time. Let your
tears fall. Cry out loud. Crying doesn't mean you are weak. It only
means that you are brave enough to acknowledge your pain.
17. Expecting is one way of hurting yourself.
This
is one of the most important lesson that I've learned in my 28 years of
existence. Always stick to rule number one: Never expect, never assume.
18. Moving on was never easy.
The
first step in moving on process is acceptance. Accepting the fact that
things will never turn out the way we want it to be. Accepting that
there is no more hope at all. Then letting go. Letting go of the things
that we used to believe that we hope to happen. I've been through a lot
before I have fully accept and let go of the things that causes me my
pain. It is hard to move on if you are not yet ready to do so. It takes
time. It is a long process. But if you do so, you'll realized that it is
all worth it. Maybe it's not always about trying to fix something that
is broken. Maybe it's about starting over and creating something better.
19. Love yourself first.
As
Lucille Ball says, "Love yourself first and everything falls into
line." Learn to build a solid relationship with yourself through
SELF-LOVE. For it is when you open your heart to loving yourself no
matter what, that you will discover what it means to love another fully.
And chances are, radiating love from the inside, you will attract true
love on the outside. Make yourself the kind of person that you would
fall in love with, and eventually, you’ll be ready to let someone else
in again. Someone who would fall in love with you the way you deserve to
be loved.
20. Superfriends are forever.
Right
after college graduation, we barely see each other. But I know in our
hearts our friendship will always be the same and that I can always
count on you like you can always count on me. I am so greatful to have
friends like Mafe, Aldrin and Bernard. No matter what happen, these
three will always be my superfriends forever. I hope we can find more
time to hang out together.
21. H, I and A will always be my angels.
I
am so lucky to have my cousins Hazel, Irish and Anne. At first, they
were just my companions and eventually became my best buddies. Three
awesome ladies who fully accepted me for who I am. I may be hard to
understand at times but they have learned to deal with it. These girls
knew my dirty little secrets, my frustrations, my struggles and my
dreams. We may be a part from each other now, but I know you are there
for me. Hugs and kisses angels.
22. My family is my most precious possession.
My
life will never be complete without my family. Mama and Papa who are
always there to love and take good care of me. Guide me and support me.
My brothers and sisters, my grandmothers, my grandfathers out there
watching over me, my cousin, tita's and tito's. They are the people who
truly love me for who I am. For as long as I have them, I know I will
always be blessed. I am so thankful to God for having them as my family.
They are my treasure.
23. Happiness is a choice.
Yes,
it is. Because it isn’t something that you ask for. It’s something you
choose to do and to be. It is a choice. Choose to be happy, every day,
even when it seems so difficult to be. No one has more constant or
direct control over the choice to be happy than you.
24. Everything's gonna be alright.
You
have the sole authority to make something better for your life, to be
braver and stronger, to simply move forward. Trust in God, lift
everything to Him and everything will be alright.
25. Stay positive.
Things
may not seem to be working out for the best with me now, but I know
I’ll make the best out of this situation. I’ll keep on doing the best I
can; I can get through this triumphantly. I know these are just
challenges and I don’t let this cause me to give up. Even though the
road was rocky, I persevered. Eventually, I will not just survive, but I
will carry on victoriously.
26. Life is indeed beautiful, live it!
Enjoy your life and put a smile on your face, no matter how hard it may seem.
27. Lupie can't bring me down.
Thirteen
years ago, I was diagnose with SLE Nephritis Stage 4. I undergone
cycles of cyclo therapy way back then. I thought that my medical
condition will affect my whole life but God never let me down. I manage
to live my life normally. I've been through a lot but I survived. I'm
still alive and kicking! Above everything else, my greatest learning in
the past 28 years is that:
28. GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME.
Need I say more?
Well, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME! :)
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